InTeo

In the event of…

A sentence with two endings, and most of us have never finished either. Finish the essentials of both now — one honest sitting.

…my passing …I can't speak for myself
🔒 Everything stays on this device. Nothing is sent anywhere.

Helping you to prepare, and then to adapt.

Three, six or nine small things — always your choice. Start with three: a message, a person, the place. Add three more when you're ready: the will, your interment hopes, who gets what. And three more after that: who speaks for you if you can't, what good care looks like, the first page of your story. Never the mountain — just the next three.

← InTeo3 · 6 · 9

How long have you got?

Just today, we mean. People land here after a diagnosis, at 2am, on the bus, at the study desk. Pick the size that fits the moment — you can always change it, and it only ever grows when you say so.

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Three things · about 5 minutesThe essentials, either way: one message, one person, the place where your personals are.
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Six things · about 12 minutesThose three, plus your passing put in order: the will, your interment hopes, who gets what.
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Nine things · about 20 minutesEverything — including who speaks for you if you can't, what good care looks like, and the first page of your story.
Never the mountain. Whatever you pick, the app only ever offers the next three — when you're done, not before. Three finished is a win. Nine finished is a gift.
InTeo3 · 6 · 90 done

The three that matter most

In any order. Stop any time — it's saved on this device as you go.

Either way
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Write one messageTo someone you love. Not goodbye — just the thing you'd want them to have. One each, as many as you like.
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Name your trusted person — or personsWho should be told first, whichever event it is. One is enough; add more if there's a team.
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Where your personals areThe shoebox, the book, the file, the folder — the place they'd need to find. More than one place is fine.
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In the event of my passing
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Say where your will isOr record honestly that there isn't one yet — that helps too.
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Your interment hopesBuried or cremated, where you'd rest, the send-off you'd want — so it's your choice, not their guess.
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Expression of wishesThe lawnmower, the paintings, the tools, the toys — the things the will doesn't name, and who you'd want to have them.
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In the event I can't speak for myself
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Who speaks for youIs there a Power of Attorney? Where is it — or who would you choose?
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What good care looks likeThe comforts, the routines, the things that matter — so they don't have to guess.
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And for always
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The first page of your storyWhere were you when…? Write one memory. This is the part nothing else does.
When you're ready
Why these? There are two events, not one — and families lose days to the same questions in both: what would they want me to know, who do I call, where are the papers, what send-off would they want, who should have their things — and what would they want, now they can't tell me? Whatever size you picked answers what fits today. The rest waits, saved, and only ever arrives three at a time.
← InTeoEither way

One message

One person per message — and write as many as you like. It doesn't need to be long or perfect; it needs to exist.

What I never said often enough is… My favourite memory of us is… What I want for you now is…

Saved only on this device. You can come back and change it any time.

← InTeoEither way

Your trusted person — or persons

Who should be told first — and who can step in, in either event. One is enough; add more if there's a team.

← InTeoEither way

Where your personals are

Every family has the place — the shoebox on the wardrobe, the book, the file, the folder, the drawer. Name yours, and nobody has to turn the house upside down looking for it.

Location only — never write account numbers or passwords here. The place is enough; the box does the rest.

← InTeoMy passing

Where the will is

Wills get found late or not at all. One honest line fixes that.

← InTeoMy passing

Your interment hopes

The choice families most dread guessing. One honest page and they'll never have to.

Keep it simple — Laughter, not black ties Who speaks… No flowers — donations to… Please make sure…

Hopes, not instructions — a will and your trusted people make them real. But written here, they're no longer a guess.

← InTeoMy passing

Expression of wishes

The will handles the estate. This handles the things — the ones with a story in them. One line each: the thing, and the person.

Solicitors call this a letter of wishes — it isn't legally binding, it guides whoever handles your estate, alongside the will. Families call it the page that stopped the argument.

← InTeoIf I can't speak

Who speaks for you

If one day you can't decide for yourself, someone will have to. A Power of Attorney makes that your choice, not a scramble.

This note is a signpost, not a legal document — a Power of Attorney has to be set up properly to count. But knowing your wishes is where everyone starts.

← InTeoIf I can't speak

What good care looks like

If you couldn't tell them — what would you want them to know? The small things are the ones that keep you you.

What always calms me is… Never stop giving me… The music I'd want playing is… What I'd hate is…
← InTeoThe Legacy · a taste

Where were you when…?

Pick a moment the world remembers — then write what you remember. That's how a life story actually gets written: one page at a time, while there's time.

Why this matters: messages and wills are for the event. The story is for always — and if incapacity ever comes, the story you wrote is also how the people caring for you still find you. In the full InTeo, this grows into your Legacy — chapters, photographs, the people you love invited to write their memories of you back. This page is the seed of it.
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That's the three.

Most people never do this. You just did.

Print a copy and put it with your papers, or send the text to your trusted person. This page keeps a copy on this device only — clear your browser data and it's gone, so the printed one matters.